Bill Gates recently gave a speech at a High School about 11 things they did not and will not learn in school. He talks about how feel-good, politically correct teachings created a generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept set them up for failure in the real world.
Rule 1: Life is not fair - get used to it!
Rule 2 : The world won't care about your self-esteem.. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.
Rule 3 : You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both.
Rule 4 : If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss
Rule 5 : Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called it opportunity.
Rule 6: If you mess up, it's not your parents' fault, so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them.
Rule 7: Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you were.. So, before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent's generation, try delousing the closet in your own room.
Rule 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.
Rule 9: Life is not divided into semesters. You don't get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own time.
Rule 10: Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.
Rule 11: Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one.
1、隨時隨地，都可以幫助別人。
2、要培養閱讀習慣。
3、禮貌要練習，就會成為習慣。
4、做錯事，要會反省。
5、要學習尊重他人——睡午覺的選擇權。
6、每一種生命都值得感動與被尊重。
7、要擴展生活經驗——孩子的自助旅行。
8、讀書是為自己，不是為父母或老師。
9、教別人功課，你會更融會貫通。
10、付出愛心——為流浪狗找幸福。
11、學習同理心與感恩心——假如我沒有雙手。
12、學習與父母更親密——洗腳活動。
13、要學會溝通。
14、激發學習動機，更有學習的樂趣與 成就感。
15、付出，會獲得更多。
16、你可以為地球盡一分心力。
17、學習打敗「害怕」，改變害羞的自我。
18、要會打掃——水球肉搏戰。
19、學會窩心。
20、別小看自己——煮一道菜給家人吃。
21、學習跟音樂交朋友。
22、最熱情的表達——老師請用拖鞋。
23、要誠實。
24、要學會解壓——大笑3分鐘。
25、帶著快樂放學去。
26、無論遇到再大的困難，都不能放棄自己。
27、要懂得感謝——體驗媽媽懷胎十月。
28、要記得微笑。
29、累積不同的體驗——去跨年吧。
30、要學會讚美——跟五個人說好話。
31、學習態度要積極。
32、要學會默默付出。
33、要學會改變。
34、傾聽，讓關係更親密。
35、要學會貼心。
36、要正視自己的問題。